Those of us who knew Jonathan, know that the world has lost a great humanitarian. I am honored and privileged to know Jonathan on many levels. He was a professional colleague, a mentor who encouraged me along in my career at Lincoln Unified, and a treasured, personal friend. Once he befriended you, you had a loyal and trusted friend for life.
When Jonathan held the position of the Dean of Boys, he expressed compassion. After conferring with a student in trouble, he would say,“Go out the back door, so your friends and teachers won’t see you leaving my office." He was concerned that the student might want to avoid embarrassment. He treated everyone with respect and dignity.
Jonathan was never above those he supervised. He never asked us to do something he wouldn't do himself. In the early years of his deanship next to the attendance office, if we had a lineup of students getting passes to class, he would roll up his sleeves, come out and help us. His dry sense of humor and willingness to pitch in kept us all bolstered and on our toes.
Another of his philosophies concerning staff was, “...just because someone has had a bad year, you don‘t throw them away. Everyone has a bad few months or a year.”
He was a champion of students, staff and parents, though a few didn't realize it, because he held himself so close. He told me he always felt more comfortable in a small group, rather than large group settings
In one of JP’s emails to me, he recalled that Willard's professional advise to him was, “Your job is to keep the ship afloat. Don’t make anymore god _ _ _ _ waves. Don’t ask for money--we don’t have any. We have more students than we can house, but don’t ask for staff to supervise kids on unassigned time. There's no money to support that. Don’t ask for money to finish the interior quads or the parking lot, we don’t have the money. We don’t have any money for staff development nonsense."
Just to maintain consistency, if Jonathan asked for more help, Willard would say “We don’t have the money, just don’t do it.” In spite of that advice, Jonathan always found a way. He and his son Mak finished the interior quads on weekends and the cost came out of Jonathan’s pocket.
He found creative ways to support staff development. In the beginning, that came out of his personal pocket, too. Jonathan underestimated his own value to students and staff, or he was just too humble to acknowledge it. The list of his accomplishments, behind the scenes, in their behalf, is endless.
Those of us privileged to work with Jonathan valued his kindness, intellect, expertise and advice. The counsel he provided as Dean, Principal, and then Assistant Superintendent for Education Services affected lives positively. He never suggested the "right" answer to resolving a problem. He would encourage creative thinking, and explain several options by prefacing, “you may want to consider this” or “you may want to consider that.” He made you understand that you were a valued contributor.
When Jonathan retired and started writing fiction, I was honored when he'd send manuscripts and ask for my opinion. What? This great man valued my opinion? I read them all, of course. My favorites of his books are the ones that seemed to reveal a glimpse of his personal life. Among my favorites are
Emma Snow,
The Far Side of the Moon, and
Buds.
I encouraged him to write about his personal experiences in the military, and about his upbringing. He always declined. A frequent response was, "Thanks for the suggestion, but (here it comes again) my experiences were almost all unpleasant. The war was badly run . Officers were learning their craft and making awful mistakes. The men often didn’t know what they were doing in such a loud, smelly, filthy place." Over the years he was able to share some of his horrible war experiences, and I understood.
I had lunch with Jonathan for the last time in July, while I was in Northern California visiting my brother who has been quite ill. I thought then that JP looked thinner, and might be unwell, but he kept it to himself. I didn't want to believe he was ill. That day at lunch, we reminisced about our times at Lincoln, and how our children were doing. He was so very proud of Maki and Marika. He did his best to take good care of his wife, Miya.
I have many, many wonderful memories and many more stories, that I treasure.
I lost my beloved brother, not long after Jonathan’s passing. I lost two important people, a treasured friend and my eldest brother. I can only say that words are not adequate to describe the pain and sense of loss.
Jonathan played an important role in who I am. He touched my life in a profound and positive way.
“Striving on.”
~Beverly Holt